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This post originally appeared on www.thekidsperts.com, a fantastic resource for parents and daycare providers.
Hola, Mexico!
Well, for Christmas 2015, my little family of three tried something new! We spent seven days at a gorgeous all-inclusive resort just south of Cancun.


We traveled as a group of six; me and my husband upgraded to a honeymoon suite, my bonus-daughter and sister shared a garden view room, and my parents upgraded to a suite as well. Yes, my husband is a saint for spending his vacation with his in-laws; but the truth is we had an absolutely wonderful time together!
Depending on the evening, we met up at the Preferred Club, an additional bar/lounge available to guests who upgraded. It was a great place to wait for a table before dinner or relax after dinner. We brought card games to play but found the game Heads Up on our phones to be a go-to for group entertainment. Speaking of entertainment, the resort had fire dancers, a market night, karaoke, movies, live bands and more to offer each evening. The vibe at this resort is they offer things to keep you busy and entertained from sunrise until midnight, but you have no obligation to participate.
Family-friendly resorts, like Dreams, often have activities and kids clubs to keep kids busy and having fun while mom and dad enjoy the resort. At almost sixteen, the bonus daughter was way too old for that scene but kept busy with books she had packed, and resort activities like yoga, volleyball, and swimming.
Paying for the trip:
Now, this type of trip may be common for the rich and famous, but our household is neither! We live below our means with aggressive savings goals and began planning this trip in January of 2015. Our rule with finances is to only finance needs (house, cars (sometimes)), and otherwise, we don’t buy things unless we can pay in full for them, and this trip was no different. Our trip did go on a credit card with twelve months interest-free and was paid off well before we left town. Not going into debt on this trip made it even more enjoyable as we sat by the pool knowing we wouldn’t come home to a mountain of debt.

It was hard to leave the warm weather behind, but we were happy to arrive back in Des Moines on December 23rd, just in time for a snowy Christmas at home. Overall, we had such a great time on this trip. It was so worth saving up for a trip of this caliber and we really hope we get the chance to go again someday!
Vacation Flashback: Cancun 2015
Monday, October 9, 2017
This post originally appeared on www.thekidsperts.com, a fantastic resource for parents and daycare providers.
Hola, Mexico!
Well, for Christmas 2015, my little family of three tried something new! We spent seven days at a gorgeous all-inclusive resort just south of Cancun.


We traveled as a group of six; me and my husband upgraded to a honeymoon suite, my bonus-daughter and sister shared a garden view room, and my parents upgraded to a suite as well. Yes, my husband is a saint for spending his vacation with his in-laws; but the truth is we had an absolutely wonderful time together!
Depending on the evening, we met up at the Preferred Club, an additional bar/lounge available to guests who upgraded. It was a great place to wait for a table before dinner or relax after dinner. We brought card games to play but found the game Heads Up on our phones to be a go-to for group entertainment. Speaking of entertainment, the resort had fire dancers, a market night, karaoke, movies, live bands and more to offer each evening. The vibe at this resort is they offer things to keep you busy and entertained from sunrise until midnight, but you have no obligation to participate.
Family-friendly resorts, like Dreams, often have activities and kids clubs to keep kids busy and having fun while mom and dad enjoy the resort. At almost sixteen, the bonus daughter was way too old for that scene but kept busy with books she had packed, and resort activities like yoga, volleyball, and swimming.
Paying for the trip:
Now, this type of trip may be common for the rich and famous, but our household is neither! We live below our means with aggressive savings goals and began planning this trip in January of 2015. Our rule with finances is to only finance needs (house, cars (sometimes)), and otherwise, we don’t buy things unless we can pay in full for them, and this trip was no different. Our trip did go on a credit card with twelve months interest-free and was paid off well before we left town. Not going into debt on this trip made it even more enjoyable as we sat by the pool knowing we wouldn’t come home to a mountain of debt.

It was hard to leave the warm weather behind, but we were happy to arrive back in Des Moines on December 23rd, just in time for a snowy Christmas at home. Overall, we had such a great time on this trip. It was so worth saving up for a trip of this caliber and we really hope we get the chance to go again someday!
One of the perks of our somewhat unconventional jobs is the flexibility to travel without taking a ton of time off. As the dates solidified for my most recent trip to Arizona, my best guy offered to join me for the first week of my two week assignment. My wonderful boss was also joining in for the week, bringing her husband and two boys, and was staying a few extra days to visit the Grand Canyon. Add in my awesome teammates Skye, Jenny and Erin, we had a whole gang meeting up for some hard work and fun in the sun!
All in all, it was a fantastic trip, and we're already planning our next visit!
More Fun in Tempe
Tuesday, July 11, 2017
One of the perks of our somewhat unconventional jobs is the flexibility to travel without taking a ton of time off. As the dates solidified for my most recent trip to Arizona, my best guy offered to join me for the first week of my two week assignment. My wonderful boss was also joining in for the week, bringing her husband and two boys, and was staying a few extra days to visit the Grand Canyon. Add in my awesome teammates Skye, Jenny and Erin, we had a whole gang meeting up for some hard work and fun in the sun!
All in all, it was a fantastic trip, and we're already planning our next visit!
Three years ago today, I married my best friend. He's an amazing partner and father, and I often ask myself how I got this lucky. In celebration of our third anniversary, I wanted to share the story of our unconventional backyard wedding. Enjoy!
On a rainy summer day three years ago, my best friend and I exchanged vows and rings in front of our friends and family in our backyard. Never ones for the ordinary, our celebration was actually a surprise, as our guests thought they were attending my 30th birthday party!
Let's rewind a bit, shall we? When the topic of marriage came up, we both wanted something simple and wanted to avoid the big to-dos that come with big weddings. After recently combining houses, the last thing we needed was another toaster or crockpot, so we wanted to make sure we wouldn't get any gifts. Drawing some inspiration from one of our favorite television shows, a surprise wedding ceremony seemed like the perfect idea for us.
One of the first calls we made was to Woody's Smoke Shack for catering. Several of our early dates were at Woody's and their award-winning barbecue made it the easiest decision. One minor drawback; the owners are family friends of my parents! After swearing Cheryl and Woody to secrecy, we picked out our favorite foods and enough to feed a small army.
We sketched out plans to transform our backyard into a wedding venue, adding a privacy fence and ordering tables and chairs. Since the cover for the party was a surprise party celebrating my 30th birthday, we had to be creative with invitations. Most of our friends were invited via Facebook event, others by email, and a others received an actual invitation for the surprise birthday party.


My best friend since childhood was expecting her second baby, and I asked if she'd stop by after work on Wednesday, and I let her in on the secret and asked if she'd stand up with me. Tracey and I shared happy tears and it made me even more excited - it seemed so real to tell people! James, his daughter, and I spent the night before putting together center pieces and making bouquets. Around midnight we went to bed, taking time to write our personalized vows to each other.
Saturday morning, we woke up and got a jump start on our to-do list. As we started setting up, our dear family friend Judy stopped by with flowers and a balloon, so we quickly scrambled to hide everything. My sister had been tasked with taking me out to lunch - remember, she thought it was a surprise birthday party! My mom had asked what I was doing on my birthday and I lied, telling her that Meredith and I were going out to lunch and that James wanted me out of the house while my birthday present was delivered, and that I thought it was a hot tub. Oh the tangled webs we weave! So a little before noon my sister arrived to take me to lunch when I asked, "Will you be my maid of honor?" She squealed "YES! Are we going to Vegas?" and I replied:
"The wedding is tonight. I know about the surprise party,
and we've got hair appointments in twenty minutes."
She was overjoyed and asked what to wear, so we went to her place to grab a black dress. In true little sister form, the dress she picked was actually one of mine, she had stolen it! Then it was off for our hair appointments followed by lunch. My friend Melissa had been in on the plan for about six months and by some miracle happened to still be in town, and she joined us briefly at the salon before heading home to get ready as my third bridesmaid. Meanwhile, James and his daughter set up the tent, tables, and centerpieces before cleaning up.
After a couple quick stops, we collected my future bonus kid and met up with Tracey for manicures as the caterers and guests arrived back home. James kept a close eye on the weather from our home office and he kept the tent structurally sound by clearing the rain that had collected. Our friend and photographer Sarah Franczyk captured all the details, with special instructions to capture our parents' expressions at the big announcement.
All photos provided by Sarah Franczyk - Sarah B Photography.
Our guests mingled inside our home as they waited for the rain to pass. When the time came, we made the drive back to the house, and I was full of excitement. James greeted me in front of our house with an umbrella and we made our way around to our side gate. Everyone shouted surprise and I pretended to be shocked - trying to hide my giddiness at what was going to happen next.
After a few minutes, James took the microphone and thanked everyone for coming and announced that we were liars because they weren't here for a birthday party, they were here for a wedding! My mom's reaction was absolutely priceless! My parents had returned from vacation a day earlier than they originally planned after James had visited and told them about the birthday party.
James asked his three closest friends to meet us inside as his groomsmen. Tracey, Melissa, Meredith and my soon-to-be Bonus Kid joined us inside to get ready, and my mom helped me pick out my dress. I had ordered three off-white dresses, and she picked the perfect dress for me to wear. James shirt had been soaked by the rain, so he put on a white knitted shirt and grabbed similar shirts for his groomsmen to wear while the rest of our friends mingled outside. Melissa's husband Joey was a huge help by setting up a spot under the crab apple tree and spreading extra cedar chips so we didn't have to stand in the mud.

Without a rehearsal, I had made a list of the order we'd process in. As the rain changed to a slight mist, I queued up the music and our short ceremony began. Our guests stayed huddled under the tent and umbrellas, we exchanged our vows and rings and said 'I do' and then the party started! We ate, drank and danced until long after the sun went down. Our first dance as husband and wife was to Etta James' At Last, fitting for this moment after a decade of friendship. Despite the rain, it was an absolutely perfect day. Enjoy these photos, courtesy of Sarah B. Photography.
Happy Anniversary to my best guy!
Our Surprise Wedding - June 2014
Wednesday, June 28, 2017
Three years ago today, I married my best friend. He's an amazing partner and father, and I often ask myself how I got this lucky. In celebration of our third anniversary, I wanted to share the story of our unconventional backyard wedding. Enjoy!
On a rainy summer day three years ago, my best friend and I exchanged vows and rings in front of our friends and family in our backyard. Never ones for the ordinary, our celebration was actually a surprise, as our guests thought they were attending my 30th birthday party!
Let's rewind a bit, shall we? When the topic of marriage came up, we both wanted something simple and wanted to avoid the big to-dos that come with big weddings. After recently combining houses, the last thing we needed was another toaster or crockpot, so we wanted to make sure we wouldn't get any gifts. Drawing some inspiration from one of our favorite television shows, a surprise wedding ceremony seemed like the perfect idea for us.
One of the first calls we made was to Woody's Smoke Shack for catering. Several of our early dates were at Woody's and their award-winning barbecue made it the easiest decision. One minor drawback; the owners are family friends of my parents! After swearing Cheryl and Woody to secrecy, we picked out our favorite foods and enough to feed a small army.
We sketched out plans to transform our backyard into a wedding venue, adding a privacy fence and ordering tables and chairs. Since the cover for the party was a surprise party celebrating my 30th birthday, we had to be creative with invitations. Most of our friends were invited via Facebook event, others by email, and a others received an actual invitation for the surprise birthday party.


My best friend since childhood was expecting her second baby, and I asked if she'd stop by after work on Wednesday, and I let her in on the secret and asked if she'd stand up with me. Tracey and I shared happy tears and it made me even more excited - it seemed so real to tell people! James, his daughter, and I spent the night before putting together center pieces and making bouquets. Around midnight we went to bed, taking time to write our personalized vows to each other.
Saturday morning, we woke up and got a jump start on our to-do list. As we started setting up, our dear family friend Judy stopped by with flowers and a balloon, so we quickly scrambled to hide everything. My sister had been tasked with taking me out to lunch - remember, she thought it was a surprise birthday party! My mom had asked what I was doing on my birthday and I lied, telling her that Meredith and I were going out to lunch and that James wanted me out of the house while my birthday present was delivered, and that I thought it was a hot tub. Oh the tangled webs we weave! So a little before noon my sister arrived to take me to lunch when I asked, "Will you be my maid of honor?" She squealed "YES! Are we going to Vegas?" and I replied:
"The wedding is tonight. I know about the surprise party,
and we've got hair appointments in twenty minutes."
She was overjoyed and asked what to wear, so we went to her place to grab a black dress. In true little sister form, the dress she picked was actually one of mine, she had stolen it! Then it was off for our hair appointments followed by lunch. My friend Melissa had been in on the plan for about six months and by some miracle happened to still be in town, and she joined us briefly at the salon before heading home to get ready as my third bridesmaid. Meanwhile, James and his daughter set up the tent, tables, and centerpieces before cleaning up.
After a couple quick stops, we collected my future bonus kid and met up with Tracey for manicures as the caterers and guests arrived back home. James kept a close eye on the weather from our home office and he kept the tent structurally sound by clearing the rain that had collected. Our friend and photographer Sarah Franczyk captured all the details, with special instructions to capture our parents' expressions at the big announcement.
All photos provided by Sarah Franczyk - Sarah B Photography.
Our guests mingled inside our home as they waited for the rain to pass. When the time came, we made the drive back to the house, and I was full of excitement. James greeted me in front of our house with an umbrella and we made our way around to our side gate. Everyone shouted surprise and I pretended to be shocked - trying to hide my giddiness at what was going to happen next.
After a few minutes, James took the microphone and thanked everyone for coming and announced that we were liars because they weren't here for a birthday party, they were here for a wedding! My mom's reaction was absolutely priceless! My parents had returned from vacation a day earlier than they originally planned after James had visited and told them about the birthday party.
James asked his three closest friends to meet us inside as his groomsmen. Tracey, Melissa, Meredith and my soon-to-be Bonus Kid joined us inside to get ready, and my mom helped me pick out my dress. I had ordered three off-white dresses, and she picked the perfect dress for me to wear. James shirt had been soaked by the rain, so he put on a white knitted shirt and grabbed similar shirts for his groomsmen to wear while the rest of our friends mingled outside. Melissa's husband Joey was a huge help by setting up a spot under the crab apple tree and spreading extra cedar chips so we didn't have to stand in the mud.

Without a rehearsal, I had made a list of the order we'd process in. As the rain changed to a slight mist, I queued up the music and our short ceremony began. Our guests stayed huddled under the tent and umbrellas, we exchanged our vows and rings and said 'I do' and then the party started! We ate, drank and danced until long after the sun went down. Our first dance as husband and wife was to Etta James' At Last, fitting for this moment after a decade of friendship. Despite the rain, it was an absolutely perfect day. Enjoy these photos, courtesy of Sarah B. Photography.
Happy Anniversary to my best guy!
I've made the drive from Des Moines to my grandmother's home in western Nebraska a dozen times or so. For those of you unfamiliar with the drive through Nebraska, once you're past Lincoln, if you've seen one mile, you've seen 'em all. And she's clear across Nebraska, only about 30 miles from the Wyoming border.
As we packed up to head back to Denver, I laughed at the difference in our packings styles. I may be the one that travels most for business, but clearly he's winning at the adulting game.
James had researched and found the 16th Street Mall in downtown Denver as our destination. On our way, we got to see a packed Coors Field. The road we were on led right to the stadium, almost looking like it reached center field. On 16th Street, we picked up souvenirs, did a LOT of people watching, and grabbed dinner at Illegal Burger, a funky burger place, on par with Zombie Burger in Des Moines.
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I'm so grateful for the chance to visit family and enjoy some quality time on the road with my best guy.
Colorado/Wyoming/Nebraska - May 2017
Tuesday, June 13, 2017
I've made the drive from Des Moines to my grandmother's home in western Nebraska a dozen times or so. For those of you unfamiliar with the drive through Nebraska, once you're past Lincoln, if you've seen one mile, you've seen 'em all. And she's clear across Nebraska, only about 30 miles from the Wyoming border.
As we packed up to head back to Denver, I laughed at the difference in our packings styles. I may be the one that travels most for business, but clearly he's winning at the adulting game.
James had researched and found the 16th Street Mall in downtown Denver as our destination. On our way, we got to see a packed Coors Field. The road we were on led right to the stadium, almost looking like it reached center field. On 16th Street, we picked up souvenirs, did a LOT of people watching, and grabbed dinner at Illegal Burger, a funky burger place, on par with Zombie Burger in Des Moines.
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I'm so grateful for the chance to visit family and enjoy some quality time on the road with my best guy.

Word of caution to my friends; if you joke about me joining your vacation, there's a good chance I'll be emailing you my flight confirmation shortly after! When our friends Jim and Angie decided to renew their vows in Las Vegas, Jim make a comment about the expensive photography fee and said he wished he could just hire us to go with them. About two hours later, I had booked tickets for James and me to join them! Once again, flying through Allegiant Airlines, we booked airfare, hotel, and ground transportation for $777 - a lucky sign for a Vegas trip, right?


After the ceremony, we took more photos, and waited for the sun to set to capture the image Angie dreamed of:

While we waited for the next fountain show, we watched another couple get married at the same spot. They traveled from the east coast to elope, and their photographer left after a few photos, so we captured more for them. They were so sweet, but we never heard from them!
Do you know this couple? Have them contact me!
Vacation Flashback: Vegas 2012 - Part 1: Jim & Angie's Ceremony
Sunday, April 23, 2017

Word of caution to my friends; if you joke about me joining your vacation, there's a good chance I'll be emailing you my flight confirmation shortly after! When our friends Jim and Angie decided to renew their vows in Las Vegas, Jim make a comment about the expensive photography fee and said he wished he could just hire us to go with them. About two hours later, I had booked tickets for James and me to join them! Once again, flying through Allegiant Airlines, we booked airfare, hotel, and ground transportation for $777 - a lucky sign for a Vegas trip, right?


After the ceremony, we took more photos, and waited for the sun to set to capture the image Angie dreamed of:

While we waited for the next fountain show, we watched another couple get married at the same spot. They traveled from the east coast to elope, and their photographer left after a few photos, so we captured more for them. They were so sweet, but we never heard from them!
Do you know this couple? Have them contact me!
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